Life choices: 95% of people have discovered the secret
Do you remember when you chose your university path?
Maybe you knew exactly what you wanted from the start, or perhaps you had to think long and hard about it, just like most people do when faced with choosing a degree.
Many underestimate the importance of that choice, but it has massive consequences on both personal and professional life.
One of the most influential factors is time. Think about it: we live in a society that’s constantly pressing the accelerator—and expects you to do the same.
But where’s the time to reflect?
Because making such an important decision takes time. I could throw in a few clichés like “Rome wasn’t built in a day” or “Slow and steady wins the race”.
But it’s true.
It’s damn true that anything well-built and long-lasting was first thought out, before being built.
Take Amazon, for example. It didn’t become a multibillion-dollar business overnight, right? Same for Apple or Google.
So, how can one of the most important choices of your life bring the results you hope for if you make it without taking the time to think?
But don’t worry: I’m not trying to stress you out. If you’re reading this, the solution is already in your hands. You need to keep reading to find out how to shape your future.
How do you choose your path in life?
There was this classmate of mine in middle school. We eventually lost touch, but he got me thinking once I became a life coach.
We went to the same school until the third year, at which point we had to choose which high school to attend.
He was smart, and every teacher agreed that a classical or scientific high school was the only sensible choice. It would give him solid study methods and deepen his general knowledge, unlike a technical or vocational school. That way, once at university, he’d have a strong foundation to build on.
But his choice shocked everyone.
No one forced him, and even though he was only 13, not even his parents tried to change his mind when he chose to attend a business-technical school instead.
Why did he make that choice? Easy: most of his closest friends were going there because their academic performance didn’t meet the expectations of more demanding schools.
So, he chose friendship over logic. A noble choice, no judgment there—but one that, due to the so-called “butterfly effect”, led to a series of damaging consequences.
We’ve caught up a few times over the years during class reunions, and I got to hear how things turned out for him.
That school never gave him a proper study method. He went through high school half-heartedly, more focused on finishing quickly (without repeating years) than doing it well.
That affected the university too: he enrolled in Economics (after graduating in accounting), but fell behind and ended up stuck in a job that gave him no sense of purpose, one he’s now desperately trying to escape.
It’s pretty straightforward, right? How a 13-year-old’s seemingly innocent decision led to the suffering of a 30-year-old adult?
So, when it comes to choosing your life path—whether it’s school or work—you’ve got a few options:
Flip a coin: Old-school but effective. They say if you feel happy with the result, then it's the right choice. If you feel disappointed, go with the other one.
Ask your friends: Advice is always helpful. But your friends—no matter how much they love you—will always advise based on their experiences, not necessarily on what’s best for you.
Choose a professional life coach: The smartest choice. Having someone who gets to know the real you and guides you with objective advice based on proven techniques tailored to your goals. No detours, no wasted time, no regrets.
95% effective: life coaching works
There’s a study by Tribe and Seek, a top coaching platform that helps people clarify their career goals and make informed decisions, that proves how crucial the figure of a life coach really is.
95% of people who went through a coaching program aimed at career decision-making gave positive feedback, saying coaching was essential in finding the right path.
That’s everyone.
But there’s more: the coaching industry’s revenue grew by 12% from 2019 to 2022. That means more and more people are turning to coaching, and demand is rising.
Here’s how I guide you through your life choices
If you’ve read this far, you probably get it by now: your time is your most valuable asset.
Valuing your time means getting more personal satisfaction, making the most of your days by focusing on what truly matters, and building a career based on passion, not just a paycheck.
Making conscious choices with the help of a professional who tailors a journey around you means you stop wasting time searching blindly for the “right” path.
Remember my old classmate? How many years did he spend after high school thinking he had made the wrong choice?
Spending quality time—whether in the office, at school, or during your downtime—also means building better relationships, based on clarity and calm.
Sadly, most people don’t think that’s possible. They think work is just a duty, something that’s meant to be hard, painful, and sacrificial. Never anything enjoyable.
Wrong.
What I’m offering you today is a chance to join a coaching journey designed to align every area of your life, whether it’s choosing the right field of study or the right career.
Why not start with a COMPLETELY FREE first session? It costs nothing, but it could give you everything.
Who I am
I’m just an ordinary guy who, at some point in his life, got tired of following the beaten path and chose instead to face life one moment at a time.
Today, I live in Australia, support myself with two jobs, and pursue my passions. And yes — this is the life that suits me. This is my ideal dimension.
Feeling fulfilled these days is one of the biggest challenges we face, but I’m here to help. Each of us is looking for our path, often without realizing that the answer is already within us, buried under layers of doubt and insecurity.
I want to help you peel back those layers so you can reach your true self, so that when you look in the mirror, you can finally say: “Yes, that’s me.”
